It's about both of you

Posted by Wayne G. Barber

Anyone who has read or heard anything about taking youngsters fishing or hunting has probably heard that the experience is "all about the kids". This isn't the entire story. Sure, the child's comfort and enjoyment is critical, but don't forget what you're getting out of the deal. You're making an investment of your time and patience in order to plant a seed. Being patient and conscientious now will result in a hunting and fishing buddy for the rest of your life. There aren't too many parent and child activities that offer this kind of mutual enjoyment and meaningful bond.

That said, one of the best ways to maximize the return on your investment is to adjust your expectations. Focus on seeing game instead of taking game. Of course, go about things the proper way and you may not need to compromise. But just seeing game in a hunting situation can be very exciting for youngsters, especially if you are excited about it too.

When taking kids fishing, especially the first few times, leave your rod at home. Focus on helping them catch fish instead of catching them yourself. Help them. Teach them. Again, explain what is going on in order to keep them engaged and excited. You may think it's possible, but you cannot do these things when you've got a rod in your own hands.
Ever wonder what it would be like to be a fishing or hunting guide? Take your kids hunting or fishing and you'll get your chance. As a guide and father, I can attest that the situations are almost the same. My kids may not smoke cigars or tell dirty jokes, but they are both lousy tippers.

The payoff

Putting the needs of our kids ahead of our own is something every parent is used to. Follow the same model when taking your kids afield. Give a bit now and you'll be rewarded when you are old and gray.

"Hi, Dad. Want to go hunting today?"
Source: Josh Lantz